Well hello again.
Aviva Anders here, Nashville Jewish escort and lover of some the kinkier things in life. I want to talk to you today about something that’s been on my mind a lot lately. Something we all wear from time to time…and feels so good to take off. Our inhibitions.
The inhibitions we wear can be picked up almost anywhere. Whether they come from our strict upbringings; our puritanical societies or our expectant culture, we wear them like garments. Like clothing that feels tight enough to be several sizes too small.
Have you ever tried getting kinky with someone wearing restrictive latex? The whole point is bondage. Restriction. Power exchange. There are plenty of times that restrictive latex can feel like the least inhibiting thing in a gal’s (or guy’s!) closet. But only if you shed your inhibitions first. Can you imagine squeezing into that while also wearing say, a fur coat?
That is kind of how inhibitions are as well. Like wearing big, heavy garments underneath our clothes. They might keep us safe and protected, but they can also stifle us and restrict our ability to move and connect with others.
Shame is a thing we most often seek to hide from others. It does us no favors, but we hold it close to protect ourselves from exposure.
Just imagine how it would feel to shed it and be naked with someone.
Imagine that exposure in complete acceptance, safety, and the shared joy of exploration with someone who holds space in your life purely for mutual pleasure. Imagine what you could experience sensually once you learn to be truly naked.
While I’m not licensed to prescribe a specific treatment to lower your inhibitions, I am 100% qualified to offer the following sound advice: date a Jewish girl.
Better yet, HIRE one! I offer experiences carefully cultivated to your goals and comfort level as they align with my own. In these experiences, I teach you how to honor your boundaries while expanding your safe space. I establish intimate space for us to explore together, no matter what may have held you back in the past. As you set down those heavy garments, you learn the ways your life can be enriched by a deeper sense of your sexual self.
Ready to strip down to the places you deserve to share?
Take the first click toward conquering your inhibitions here